i just have one thing to ask
do NOT, under any circumstances, tag your hate
when i go into my ship’s and/or show’s tag, i do not want to see how you hate it and it’s fans
it’s rude and disrespectful and just plain fucking annoying
that is all.
I don’t agree with…
FYI, this isn’t about fucking Tiva, or shipping. It’s about some sad little fucks who have nothing better to do than beat up on some stranger who, unfortunately, lets it affect her. I know, it’s hard NOT to let things like this affect you, and I only know this person through tumblr so while I have some insight into what she’s been through/lives with, I’m not her. I’d WELCOME those fuckers to come after me; I am always looking for a good laugh.
If she was a Tiva fan? The sad thing is, this would probably still happen. So both pro and anti? Just chill the fuck out. This has absolutely NOTHING to do with NCIS except in a very peripheral way, and almost EVERYTHING to do with poor pathetic people who feel the need to feel better about themselves by putting others down, putting strangers down anonymously because they are too chicken shit to do it any other way, and are also so full of hatred for themselves they’re blinded by it and don’t see nor care about what they’re doing.
How about this, my fellow NCIS fans?* Retreat to your own corners and do not interact until you can come back and not only be accepting of other peoples’ opinions, not just tolerant because tolerance is for shit, but ACCEPT, but also don’t sit in assumption of WHY people have the opinions they have, or WHY they see things differently. Celebrate the differences. That’s what life should be about. That’s what makes life interesting. We can laugh over things like how we thought the interrogation scene in Truth or Consequences was all Tiva, or not Tiva at all, or simply team with a touch of McGiva, or McNozzo.
We need to stop talking in these extreme words about a fucking television show that represents “reality” in the loosest sense of the word. It’s NOT REAL, but the people being ganged up on or judged ARE. People shouldn’t be brought to tears because of some cruel thing a fellow fan said. People shouldn’t be threatening to delete their fucking tumblrs or various other blogs simply because they don’t feel included. It’s getting old.
No, perhaps the original post re: “Tiva whores” shouldn’t have been tagged, and when I read it I KNEW there was going to be some shit. But you know what? The idea of not tagging hate has something to do with common decency, and that is sadly lacking on the internet in general. I can go on and on about what a fucking joke Tiva is, how I don’t like it and that not every scene with them is a “Tiva” scene, and on and on and tag it with whatever the fuck I want. But mostly I don’t. Because I at least ATTEMPT to practice common decency. Not all of the time because sometimes, I admit I’m itching for fucking fight.
So shit like what happened today? It’s going to continue because too many people could give a shit about common decency or integrity, and only want to focus on making themselves feel better at the expense of others. And sadly, as long as people continue to be cowardly and hide behind anon, and as long as people continue to let those assholes know that they are getting to them, it’s going to continue. It’s really quite easy to figure out. Sometimes turn the other cheek is the only way, as long as you remember that those assholes out there? Have no real control over your happiness in your real life.
*(Fellow fans, at least as long as I still call myself a fan because I’m really not too sure I want to be considered part of this fandom any longer considering it’s so full of bullshit; thanks, but I have enough of that in my real life that I really don’t need it in something that I’m supposed to be fucking enjoying! This is getting redundant. Thing is, I’m not going to even consider deleting my tumblr, if only because it’s hardly got any NCIS these days, but because this fucking thing IS FOR ME AND NO ONE ELSE. If others get some enjoyment? Hey, I’m totally cool with that and I’m happy to give it. But seriously? It comes across as extremely juvenile to threaten something like that. It’s a cry for attention, and little else. So people, knock it the fuck off.
And if I’ve offended any one of my followers, especially those I consider friends, I apologize, but this shit is stupid. I was in a good mood after an evening spent driving along the beach and doing some window shopping. Then this shows up, and while yeah, perhaps I’m being hypocritical in that it obviously bothered me, bothered me enough that I had to rant.
Difference is I’m going to post this, and then get back to what I was going to do, which was post a few pictures I took this evening, watch some more Battlestar Galactica, and make a late dinner then pack to go home for the weekend. I’m choosing to not let it affect me because I’ve been there and done that and I’ve realized this is the dumbest fucking thing I have ever let me affect me negatively.